Snow is falling in hushed tones. The kids are off to school; my husband is working diligently in his office downstairs. I have an article to write and the atmosphere is perfect–no distractions. Yet, I’m lonely for human interaction. I realize that writing is a lonely job.
I love my chosen career. However, I do desire the opportunity to brainstorm ideas with face-to-face colleagues. Also, I’ve learned the writing trade mostly from the school of hard knocks rather than in a journalism school. I think that it makes me a better writer, but sometimes self-doubt does creep in when it comes to taking the next step in my writing career.
I’m learning to overcome the challenge of loneliness. I make sure that I have a day out to do things that I like–whether that’s a Bible study or breakfast out with a friend. I’m also picking up some sub days–although I think my assignment today may be cancelled due to poor weather. But the idea of getting out and subbing again gives me motivation to exercise my teaching skills and maybe encourage a budding writer.
Yes, writing has many perks for sure. However, all careers do have their downsides, and loneliness is definitely up there when it comes to being a freelance writer. I have found, though, that if I use my creative mind, I can find ways to overcome or at least eliminate some of the pitfalls of loneliness in this business.
Maybe writing at times when there is limited opportunity for relationships (early morning/late night/wee hours) would allow you freedom to meet the people you want to write about, conduct research in a group setting, like the library or with EHS aspiring journalists, or brainstorm with colleagues. I imagine loneliness strikes hardest and deepest when you know the rest of the world is connecting and you are not. Someday I imagine wearing the same shoes you are now, but for now I am frenetically connected and long for the solitude. Try putting the shoe on the other foot in those moments of wishing for a face to face encounter, and savor the quietness that is yours.
Thanks, Tim! 🙂
I can definitely relate. Writing can be a very lonely job. But it also often gives you the opportunity to meet many wonderful people.
Thanks for replying! I wouldn’t give it up for the world–but it definitely is a challenge when it’s quiet in the house when I’m writing.